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The Gap between us and our Vision

Take 3  seconds  to think how smart, rich, committed, efficient you would have  loved to be right now. The chances were that you have been thinking about that for a long time but have never made any changes except in number of days, weeks months and years delayed. At best, some people takes weak actions, or adopt behavior less congruent to their pursuit to justify their lack of result and finally claimed  goals are not achievable.

The cold brutal facts that we must all face  is that everybody is given a scorecard just like in school by , professor finance, professor health, professor personal development.

Every month each individual receives how he is doing and can decide to tuck it away and never to look into it again, some even decry the unfairness of the scorecards as they were not provided with equal opportunities were  judged the same way.

On the flip side of the coin, the good students of these school of reality were smiling home with the scorecards of higher grades and always keep them handy to have a peep into them and accept the feedback of where they need to makes change and start making efforts to improve in those arrears.

We might not at the onset be able to choose the country, town, race we were born to;we might have different learning abilities based on our upbringings, even if we try, we might  never grow to the same size and stature but this is definite true: we can choose to continue to navigate to the side we believe in strongly each moment making progress as time passes.

to be continued……..

 

 

 

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Why are you here?

Many people are puzzled concerning their reason for being here. The confusion is like walking in a fog and many keep tripping, pushing and exerting their efforts in futility.

The truth is that only those that understand the reasons for being here makes use of that opportunity effectively. They have clear thought of the what they have arrived to do, while others are wallowing in the swirling pool of confusion.

The average person is always unprepared, undetermined, restricted by what they already know. Perhaps, given up based on the bashing of the rough world. He turns a loser, even unable to comprehend where he came from to that point.Like a powerful light can pierce through darkness, so is clear thinking able to dissect a daunting problem. Clear thinking is not exactly the solution to the problems seen or encountered but can be a powerful tool to recognize, analyze and set the brain in motion towards providing answers and help us to know the scope of work and time investment needed to overcome the challenges.

Why do most people panic or  denied a challenge  when confronted with one and later allow same to overflow their mental bank? Tradition?,believe system?past  experience? all may even come together to paralyze the individual into inaction when allowed.

Facing up to our challenges boldly makes us better solvers of our problems by minimizing the amount of scarce resources-time and energy needed to solve them drastically.

Let us begin today to face up to our challenges to decrease them to manageable sizes and use the time that would have been wasted to grow everything good that we want in our lives.

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Chinedu